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Genes

June 4th, 2009 · by map · 12 Comments

My dad dropped off a box full of old photos of his side of the family yesterday. Man, there’s some awesome stuff in there. It’s weird, though, that it still hasn’t hit home that I have a son. For all intents and purposes, Emmett’s kind of sexless right now. I know that’ll change quickly, but as it stands, the vast majority of my child interactions take place with a funny, bright, opinionated, strong-willed girl. Emmett just wiggles around on my chest or in my arms, and the only time I think about him being a boy is when I’m trying to keep from being peed on during diaper changes.

I came across a picture in my dad’s box of treasures today that got me thinking more distinctly about having a boy in the house. Take a gander:

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There’s nothing in this shot — save perhaps the slightly nancy shorts, and maybe the peonies — that doesn’t scream “GUY.” And the fact that this is my dad means that this is in me, somewhere. And also in Emmett, somewhere. So much to think about. It’s gonna be a wild ride.

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  • Lauren

    Just last weekend at party for Pablo’s class some other moms and I laughed as we were watching a PACK of boys running around with huge squirt guns about how funny boys are. We all agreed that it doesn’t take long before it becomes very Lord of the Flies.

  • Lauren

    Just last weekend at party for Pablo’s class some other moms and I laughed as we were watching a PACK of boys running around with huge squirt guns about how funny boys are. We all agreed that it doesn’t take long before it becomes very Lord of the Flies.

  • http://nicheplayer.net/ map

    Well this confirms every fear L has about raising a boy. Or nearly every fear.

  • kim painter

    Aw, you guys’ll buddy up just wonderfully. The ‘ridge’ photo indicates to me that you have already taken full possession of your son as papa’s boy and a chip off the old block…and that you’re pretty darned pleased about it, at that!

  • kim painter

    Aw, you guys’ll buddy up just wonderfully. The ‘ridge’ photo indicates to me that you have already taken full possession of your son as papa’s boy and a chip off the old block…and that you’re pretty darned pleased about it, at that!

  • Lauren

    Once you have a boy you are not as scared by the whole Lord of the Flies thing. You will also know very well the incredibly sweet and cuddly side of Emmett – that kind of changes everything.

  • Lauren

    Once you have a boy you are not as scared by the whole Lord of the Flies thing. You will also know very well the incredibly sweet and cuddly side of Emmett – that kind of changes everything.

  • Lauren

    uh obviously I should have said “once your boy gets a little bigger” since you have already gotten your boy!

  • Lauren

    uh obviously I should have said “once your boy gets a little bigger” since you have already gotten your boy!

  • http://hillmanfamily.wordpress.com/ jwh

    am of the opinion that all children will be “lord of the flies” if left to their own devices…

    i watched a little boy splash my two-year-old daughter this weekend and laugh… until she soaked him.

    then he cried.

  • http://hillmanfamily.wordpress.com jwh

    am of the opinion that all children will be “lord of the flies” if left to their own devices…

    i watched a little boy splash my two-year-old daughter this weekend and laugh… until she soaked him.

    then he cried.

  • http://nicheplayer.net map

    Well this confirms every fear L has about raising a boy. Or nearly every fear.