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*Sigh*

October 26th, 2007 · by map · 10 Comments

These last couple days have been mentally busy and tiring. We’ll get the results today of our latest semen analysis, which I’m not optimistic about (don’t ask me why). But it is what it is.

Last evening, I drove down to Mount Pleasant with three colleagues to watch another of our coworkers in a play called Springtown. It was actually much, much better than I thought it was going to be. Our friend did a great job (he played an insurance salesman and had five lines), and we finally got to hear him sing.

We also learned yesterday that one of Ava’s friends is in the hospital with what might be meningitis; they’ll know for sure today. She’s the same age as Ava; the two have known (of) each other for their whole short lives. It’s really scary. And it’s times like this — no matter how much concern we have for the little girl and her parents — that I can’t help but feel selfish at my relief that Ava is OK. It could be us, and there’s nothing we can do to prevent it from being us. We’re just hoping that our little friend is going to be all right and out of the hospital soon, and we’re thinking about her parents all the time.

This Sunday we’ll drive to Chicago to attend funeral services for Leah’s friend who passed away this week. It’ll be a quick trip, but hopefully the drive will prove therapeutic. By Monday morning, all this will be behind us. Ava’s friend will have been diagnosed and be receiving treatment one way or another (best case: she’s at home), and we’ll have the results of our latest analysis. I can’t recall the last time I looked so forward to having a weekend over with.

Tags: General · TMI

  • Cindy

    I completely understand…Hang in there. I told a friend the other day, if we can just get through Halloween, things will settle down. Of course, your family is in our thoughts while you tackle the weekend.

  • Cindy

    I completely understand…Hang in there. I told a friend the other day, if we can just get through Halloween, things will settle down. Of course, your family is in our thoughts while you tackle the weekend.

  • http://nicheplayer.net map

    Thanks, Cindy. I hope your grandmother’s service was OK.

    Today at work it’s AA’s turn to tailgate, and they’re bringing in the Hawkeye Cheerleaders. Aren’t you bummed you left?! ;)

  • http://nicheplayer.net map

    Thanks, Cindy. I hope your grandmother’s service was OK.

    Today at work it’s AA’s turn to tailgate, and they’re bringing in the Hawkeye Cheerleaders. Aren’t you bummed you left?! ;)

  • http://www.aprille.org/ Aprille

    Holy crap, meningitis? That’s terrifying.

    I hope the next few days go okay, with the funeral and the semen and whatnot.

  • http://www.aprille.org/ Aprille

    Holy crap, meningitis? That’s terrifying.

    I hope the next few days go okay, with the funeral and the semen and whatnot.

  • http://nicheplayer.net map

    Thanks, Aprille. Fortunately, it was viral, not bacterial. And our little friend is doing lots better today. She’ll be at UIHC through at least today, but Leah talked to her on the phone and had a very cute conversation, I’m told. So that’s a load off.

    I’m just realizing I left the TMI tag off this post….

  • http://nicheplayer.net map

    Thanks, Aprille. Fortunately, it was viral, not bacterial. And our little friend is doing lots better today. She’ll be at UIHC through at least today, but Leah talked to her on the phone and had a very cute conversation, I’m told. So that’s a load off.

    I’m just realizing I left the TMI tag off this post….

  • http://arredonald.blogspot.com/ Lauren/ Paida

    Tough weekend – so glad to hear your little friend will be home soon. Meningitis is one scary illness!

    I will be thinking about you guys on Sunday too. I am sure you will be totally exhausted by the time it is all over.

    Lauren

  • http://arredonald.blogspot.com/ Lauren/ Paida

    Tough weekend – so glad to hear your little friend will be home soon. Meningitis is one scary illness!

    I will be thinking about you guys on Sunday too. I am sure you will be totally exhausted by the time it is all over.

    Lauren